'How to get married' is a broad question. Of course it depends on your situation and circumstances, but this particular ladder of love coincides with each relationship out there regardless of anything else.
The ladder of love can often be shaky, especially near the bottom. You slowly move up the ladder and then, once at the top, you've reached your goal of marriage. This time should (and will!) be celebrated, but again, you're faced with challenges and the hope that you won't fall off the ladder like the other 60% of people (or so, as the going divorce rate fluctuates).
The first rung is the initial meeting. Do you find him attractive? Does he find you attractive? What are the chances that the two of you will each find the other attractive enough to go on a first date together? Once you've found that person and established this attraction, you can step up onto that first rung.
At this stage you head out on your first date. So many variables are taken into consideration when deciding if this person is worthy of climbing with you to the next rung. Will you like the shoes he is wearing when he shows up at your doorstep? Does he mind that you sometimes chew with your mouth open? Or will it be something even more obvious, perhaps you cannot agree on the type of restaurant to go to (if that's the case, how would your relationship ever progress further).
Assuming your first date goes well, you two are now holding hands and moving up to the third rung. Here you begin the courting stage. This stage is covered over rungs three, four and five. It is a slow process and months of hard work to continue up these steps.
Step six is often the moving in stage. Some consider the top run the moving in stage, but the majority of people prefer to have a test run before marriage. It makes sense, as living together is the ultimate test.
If you pass this test, you are rewarded by a diamond ring and a (hopefully wonderful) engagement. This section of the ladder is sometimes shaky as your (now) fiance gets to meet Bridezilla, and you get to experience his lack of enthusiasm for the upcoming nuptials.
If you have made it past this stage, congratulations! You are now at the top rung together. Hang on to each other tight, as you sway precariously on the marriage rung. If you feel like you may fall, let him know so he can help you back up. If you see him falter, hang on tighter. If you continue to do this, you can beat the odds and have a lasting and happy marriage.
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